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"Guard that which is important to you with all of your heart; yourself being first and foremost on that list."

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charisma71
Dec. 12th, 2003 08:12 am (UTC)

Hi, my name is MeLissa & I came across your journal through un_popular glexie. I like the way you have cute sayings in your journal & really find you & your writing interesting. I would like to be your friend.
nycuttie27
Feb. 24th, 2005 06:00 pm (UTC)
ok where did this come from?
mentaldisarray
Feb. 24th, 2005 06:02 pm (UTC)
lol well hello!
blige
Feb. 24th, 2005 10:02 pm (UTC)
I'd like to be added if possible. If not, I understand.


I'm sorry you've been thrown into drama and bullshit. You don't deserve that, Mel.
precious_anqel
Feb. 25th, 2005 12:07 am (UTC)
:: gasp :: u made a journal and I'm not on ur friends list? ;[

ok.

hope everything gets drama free.

<3
xxvv69xx
Feb. 25th, 2005 02:40 am (UTC)
I'm not on here either... =o( Its ok ... I guess...
Mellie, I hope everything gets better and that someone out of the people you've blocked was actually the one that was slipping up and not someone you've kept...
<3
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boxsofrain
Feb. 25th, 2005 12:20 am (UTC)
Me again? <3
chubdub
Feb. 25th, 2005 12:52 am (UTC)
dont forget me!
marcilyn
Feb. 25th, 2005 02:38 am (UTC)
hey...

I tried to im, but I guess you are beingbombarded. Hope everything is ok. <3
mich_nana_ju_ku
Feb. 25th, 2005 06:08 am (UTC)
Damn ...
Wow, I'm at a loss for words. You neglected to add me as a friend Miss Wilhite. Shame thee!

Look, I don't know what exactly transpired. You're talking to a chick who happens to be bordering on 6 year old Taiwanese factory worker here. I work damn near 9 hours a day. Subsequent to work, I take my tired ass to school and then to the gym--24 Hour Fitness (and yes, I read your entry about 24 Hour Fitness was quite amusing. If I could identify with one particular religion I would pay a visit to that religion's "place of worhip" and pray for you or perhaps sacrifice a chicken--whatever the religion required of me (let me shut my mouth before some jerk-off out there reports me to PETA for that chicken comment).

Forgive me if I'm a little out of the loop.


Look, it's like having a college professor who starts everyone out with an "A" until you start bombing tests and failing to complete class assignments (those of you who are currently enrolled or have been in the past know exactly what I'm referring to.) You have to start all of those little bastards off with an "F" and give them an opportunity to earn that "A". You're vulnerable to getting dicked over by people because you're too trusting. It really is a shame we don't live in a Utopian Society where stupidity was punishable by death (only kidding) and shit-talkers were nothing more than something we read about in books. You leave doors wide open for people without giving them a "thorough screening." Don't be afraid to slam that bitch in someone's face until they've proven themselves to be worthy of your trust, love, friendship, yadda, yadda, yadda...

You deserve a bit more respect from people and you're way too good of a person to be subjected to that type of shit.

I don't know what age group everyone on your "friends list" fell under, but I can speak for myself ... you, even Michy, and yes Gina.

*Gina if you happen to read this (and the following is something we can ALL take heed to) I'm not jumping to any conclusions about what happened--we haven't even spoken in quite some time, so by no means am I passing any judgment on you, BUT keep in mind ... you're 25 years old! IF (and I stress IF) you are guilty of the accusations against you, it's time to leave this type of bullshit behind you. These are the type of things you partake in when you're a sophomore in high school. You are a grown woman with a child and a great number of responsibilities, so my suggestion: prioritize-direct your attention to the more important things in your life and cease concerning yourself with the personal affairs of others. Moreover, don't play the role of "Ye Olde Village Messenger" or "Newsie" broadcasting someone else's personal information. If someone tells you something in confidence and you convey it to someone else, believe me ... it WILL get back to the person. Keep in mind if someone wants to air their business they have Jerry Springer as an option, not Regina Ernest. So save yourself the time, drama, etc. Play the role you were meant to play, friend--nothing more, nothing less. Don't fuck yourself by doing something extremely stupid to jeopardize the friendship of someone who has been there for you in your own time of need.

As jacked up as this may sound, Me--I just don't have time for that type of rubbish. I could give a fuck at this point in my life. There are a half million things I wish to accomplish and the few very close friends I do have, I take every measure to maintain a healthy friendship with them. As fast as someone comes into my life--trust me, they can leave my life with the aid of my foot to their ass just as fast. I've scissored PLENTY of people who merely showed signs of bad things to come, but not everyone can detach themselves from people as quickly as I can (I guess I have to live up to the nickname "NoLuv" somehow).

Just be a bit more cautious Mel and no matter what, keep in mind that you have two Michies and a "mawngeus" to look out for you--who absolutely love you. Even though I still cannot get over the fact that you own a Jessica Simpson CD. That's like owning a Teletubbie sing-a-long video.

Anyhoo, I believe I'm 20 keystrokes away from carpal tunnel syndrome, so I'll bring this to an abrupt end.

I LOVE YOU! -kissy face-


beyond_my_smile
Feb. 25th, 2005 02:13 pm (UTC)
Re: Damn ...
I'm going to ignore the fact that you used my last name on a PUBLIC FUCKING ENTRY only because what you said had merit.

Having said that, I DID add you to my friends list, nerd.

LOL @ 24. You know there's a gym in that place, right? :P
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umcraze2003
Feb. 25th, 2005 01:10 pm (UTC)
May I?
beyond_my_smile
Feb. 25th, 2005 02:18 pm (UTC)
Sure. Just keep it in the vault.
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one800collekt
Feb. 26th, 2005 12:38 am (UTC)
found you on random...hope things go better with you
camiliscious
Feb. 26th, 2005 05:55 am (UTC)
-blank stare- did I miss something?
b0obie
Feb. 26th, 2005 09:20 pm (UTC)
;]
do i get added or am i not cool anymore ;\
becoming_who
Feb. 27th, 2005 01:16 am (UTC)
Am I not allowed anymore?

I was wondering what happened to you.

I'm so jealous that you get to go out with Nubby G (glexi) that should be me, but she left me here all alone:(
dogsidranyam
Feb. 27th, 2005 02:34 am (UTC)
I want to be added again so I can spread your drama everywhere. Oh wait, I hate drama. I guess I'll just read then.
whatyouwant
Feb. 27th, 2005 09:32 am (UTC)
i love reading your journal every day.
i would love to continue doing so!
hope all is well, & take care. xo
a_rabid_flea
Mar. 1st, 2005 03:56 am (UTC)
Add me again? if not, it's cool. Hope things improve for you.
Hugs
D
ramblingwebgirl
Mar. 2nd, 2005 12:05 pm (UTC)
I noticed that you disappeared and wondered what happened. Not sure what the deal is, but sorry you ended up having to resort to this. Would still love to keep up with your journal, but I'll understand if you're only adding certain people for whatever reason.

Either way, good luck with everything.

Cheers.
absolutmonika
Mar. 2nd, 2005 08:25 pm (UTC)
OKAY THAT'S IT! I refuse to be left out in the cold any longer MELISSA! mhfrws765rfx7u6s5etu76ty! THATTTTSSSSS RIIIIGHTTTT YOU HEARD MEEEEEE!!! lol... add me now woman! :)

<3

I had posted a picture you would loveeeee in my second to last entry!
giabean
Mar. 6th, 2005 05:37 am (UTC)
you made me sad :o(
sometime_soon
Mar. 8th, 2005 03:03 pm (UTC)
whoa, when did you change your sn?? I was looking through old comments and I see someone who replied with your name and I was like..how the hell did this person get into my journal?!!?
dreamsicle
Mar. 10th, 2005 02:00 am (UTC)
Hi :) Miss ya!
dreamsicle
Mar. 10th, 2005 05:44 pm (UTC)
May I be added back?
katrina_gal123
Mar. 10th, 2005 06:33 pm (UTC)
I found your journal through a random search and I just wanted to tell you I like your "friends and lovers only" picture. :)
olivetree
Mar. 12th, 2005 04:40 am (UTC)
I was freaking out when I saw you deleted (for about a minute)!

Then I realized I had a brain and found you. :)

Hi.

I'm glad you didn't go away.
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